“Social media is great ... but there are times when social media can get in the way of the real world,” said the voiceover narrator. “That's why we develop the social media guard. It takes the social out of the media and puts it back into your life.”
A cone collar similar to Elizabethan collar or E-collar was next shown onscreen. With the guard worn around the necks, men and women were prevented from reading or viewing their electronic devices. Compelled to redirect their attention to the people around them, they made eye contact.
That was a video created by Coca-Cola for humor. In a sense, a cone collar guard might be a good way to help solve the problem of social media addiction and get people back to social interaction in the real world. However, for practical reasons, we wouldn’t wear such a guard just to disconnect to connect, unplug, and detox to avoid addiction or obsession. What we need is a solution that helps us break free from our dependency and regain control.
Too often, we have been guilty of spending too much time staying digitally connected, listening, reading, viewing, writing or updating our various social network accounts. We woo people to like, follow, and join our social media pages, blogs and sites, and to add us as friends. We post videos, pictures and text to attract attention and to draw the crowd.
Spending time online is nothing wrong, but spending too much of our time online is. If we are neglecting or missing out the more important things in life because of time spent online, we need help. Whether we are using a computer, laptop, tablet, smartphone or another device to connect to the Internet, we need to stamp down addiction or obsession. A good practice and alternative solution to the collar guard is to regularly take time off to eschew digital activity and use that time for more meaningful social interaction with our loved ones, friends and others.
Are we finding ourselves hooked for extended hours online? Are we oblivious to our surroundings at times when connected to the digital world? Do we feel restless without our smartphone or digital device in hand? If our answer to these questions is affirmative, it means it is time for us to go on a digital detox.
All about life living in Singapore. A fan of Spider-Man with interest in blogging, social media, traveling, movies, comics, music, writing and whatever else you can think of ... I'm the SpideY of former www.moblog.com.sg.
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Friday, May 9, 2014
Tuesday, May 6, 2014
Is this Us?
Social media is great, but sometimes ...
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by Brian McFadden in The Nib |
We need to disconnect ourselves from the digital world
and connect back to the real world!
and connect back to the real world!
Sunday, April 13, 2014
A Cure for Social Media Addiction?

Here's taking a look at how we can improve our relationships offline.
Friday, November 22, 2013
Celebrity Living
Paparazzi seem to be the name of the game with the famous even though they have come under constant fire for invasion of privacy. In an article by Orthry Torres at Voices.Yahoo.com some years ago, the author questioned the reason for the inordinate attention and negative talk about those who make celebrities famous by the publicity they gave them. Should not celebrities expect being famous is accepting both their personal and professional lives will be watched and criticized from the media? If celebrities feel the paparazzi make them feel as if they are being stalked, is it fair to say they only mind being stalked when they have a book, movie, or album they need help in promoting?
Getting the publicity one desires and losing one’s privacy are two sides of the same coin when it comes to celebrity living. On the one hand it is a way of getting famous, on the other it may be deemed as invading private lives.
Today, many of us in a sense are celebrities online. Whether it is peer pressure or the need to stay in touch, we join social networks and leave behind trails of digital footprints of what we do and where we visit on the Internet. Our movements are tracked down by our followers and we are ‘stalked’ by different kinds of people. If we leave trails because we desire attention or to be followed, we might just get our reward or lose our credibility in full, depending on how well we handle our online activities and behavior. If we do not do well, our sin will find us out. If we blabber or share about the things we do in our private lives on the social networks, we should not expect to live our lives with absolute privacy.
Are we feeling we are under the scrutiny of the public eye? Are we making ourselves famous for the wrong reasons or are we doing it out of concern for others? Not all things in life can be done in secret, so we need not hide what must be done even in public. Our intent is what is important—are we doing it to show off or to care?
Getting the publicity one desires and losing one’s privacy are two sides of the same coin when it comes to celebrity living. On the one hand it is a way of getting famous, on the other it may be deemed as invading private lives.
Today, many of us in a sense are celebrities online. Whether it is peer pressure or the need to stay in touch, we join social networks and leave behind trails of digital footprints of what we do and where we visit on the Internet. Our movements are tracked down by our followers and we are ‘stalked’ by different kinds of people. If we leave trails because we desire attention or to be followed, we might just get our reward or lose our credibility in full, depending on how well we handle our online activities and behavior. If we do not do well, our sin will find us out. If we blabber or share about the things we do in our private lives on the social networks, we should not expect to live our lives with absolute privacy.
Are we feeling we are under the scrutiny of the public eye? Are we making ourselves famous for the wrong reasons or are we doing it out of concern for others? Not all things in life can be done in secret, so we need not hide what must be done even in public. Our intent is what is important—are we doing it to show off or to care?
Thursday, April 18, 2013
Hire and Fire Employees Using the Social Media
Social Screening: How Companies Are Using Social Media To Hire & Fire Employees
Source: Mindflash.com
Friday, October 1, 2010
Webinar

First time I attended a webinar (web-based seminar) yesterday (9-10pm Singapore time; 9-10am USA EDT time).
I get to look at what's presented onscreen, hear the presenter's voice, ask questions and speak out. Interesting and interactive.
Thursday, August 5, 2010
Nurse Night @ SupperClub ~ August 7, 2010


Join us to celebrate our launch in the most elegant club in Singapore. The upscale club is regarded to be the most trendy, offering the glitz of Singapore's night scene. Supperclub, without a doubt, is the unprecedented lifestyle party destination.
Thursday, July 22, 2010
Grid Girls 2010 Audition
Wednesday, July 21, 2010
What Men and Women Want
What do women want?

- Pay for dates
- Escort them home
- Take initiative in celebrating special occasions like birthdays
- Dress up for special occasions
Nearly a quarter expected men to carry their bags for them, and half consider gentlemanly gestures like opening doors necessary.
What do men want?
A poll of what 85 men expected of their ladies was carried out by Straits Times Urban news supplement revealed the following:
- 78% ranked looks as an important feature they look out for in their date
- A girlfriend must not stop the man from socialising with his girl friends
- A girlfriend must also enjoy going out with his male friends
What some are saying on their blogs:
- This is Jenna’s Space ”We aren’t expecting very much, but it will be so good if Singapore men are a bit more caring and sensitive.
- SgForums ”Do SG Women expect too much?”
- Steph’s Blog Read this humorous love story by NTU undergraduate Stephanie. She has a modest collection of meaningful stories on love and relationships, some base on true accounts. Check them out using ther ‘Stories by me’ tag.
Where to find books on love and relationships? Check out DDC 306.7 and 646.77 in the General collection of libraries.
Source:
1. Mak Mun San, ”Love me, spoil me”, Straits Times, 24 Feb 08, Factiva, 9 Mar 08, www.factiva.com
2. Tee, Karen, Qianhua, Yeo, Straits Times Urban, “Urban man: Their ideal woman”, 6 March 2008, pg 6-7.
Posted by Ang Mei Jun,
Librarian, Adult & Young People’s Services
Source URL: http://blogs.nlb.gov.sg/ask/adults/408
SpideY: What do you think? Do you agree with the survey? Let me know what you really want, the things you like and the topics you want to know.
Monday, July 19, 2010
Wanna Meetup?

Some interesting Meetup Groups in Singapore ...
The Singapore Vegetarian Meetup Group
The Singapore Tennis Meetup Group
The Singapore Writers Meetup Group
The Singapore Expat Meetup
The Singapore Shuffle - Jogging/Hiking Meetup
Singapore Digital Photography Meetup Group
Women's Chill Out Kakis
The Singapore Movie Fans (and Food Lovers') Meetup Group
Singapore Travel Meetup Group
SFC - Singapore Friends Club
Feel free to check it out!
Feel free to check it out!
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Sunday, July 18, 2010
Friends Club Meetup
AFTERWORK DRINKS (FREE BEER 7.00P,M-8.00PM) -STEROLOUNGE-MARINA SQUARE
Location
Stereolounge
Pan Pacific Hotel
7 Raffles Blouevard, Marina Square
Singapore 65 6337 0800
Date: 21/07/10
Day : Wed
Time : 7.00pm -9.00pm. You can stay late if you want
Venue: Sterolab, Pan Pacific Singapore,
7, Raffles Boulevard, Marina Square, 3 minutes walk from Promenade MRT
The event is not organised by me and I am only Event co-ordinator for the event.
FREE BEER from 7pm-8pm
All standard drinks (including draught beers and wines) during Happy Hour at Stereolounge are only S$5++ each so you can come early as it starts from 5pm and goes on till 9pm
Music by DJs Edward, Stephen Day, Joe Ng, Natalie Pixiedub and Tommy AK!
Have a nice day
Francis
Founder and Organiser
Singapore Friends Club (SFC)

Stereolounge
Pan Pacific Hotel
7 Raffles Blouevard, Marina Square
Singapore 65 6337 0800
Date: 21/07/10
Day : Wed
Time : 7.00pm -9.00pm. You can stay late if you want
Venue: Sterolab, Pan Pacific Singapore,
7, Raffles Boulevard, Marina Square, 3 minutes walk from Promenade MRT
The event is not organised by me and I am only Event co-ordinator for the event.
FREE BEER from 7pm-8pm
All standard drinks (including draught beers and wines) during Happy Hour at Stereolounge are only S$5++ each so you can come early as it starts from 5pm and goes on till 9pm
Music by DJs Edward, Stephen Day, Joe Ng, Natalie Pixiedub and Tommy AK!
Have a nice day
Francis
Founder and Organiser
Singapore Friends Club (SFC)
Friday, July 16, 2010
Follow Your Friends' Blogs @ Facebook
If you have an account at Facebook and you are a blogger, why not have your friends follow your blog at Facebook?
All you need to do is to register your blog at NetworkedBlogs.
Follow my blog at NetworkedBlogs and I will follow yours:
All you need to do is to register your blog at NetworkedBlogs.
Follow my blog at NetworkedBlogs and I will follow yours:

Thursday, July 15, 2010
Street Fighter Super Arcade Gaming Event

Super Battle Opera (SBO) 8th Arcadia Cup Tournament
If you are an arcade gamer, you'll be familiar with Street Fighter 4.
You can now be a part of the game and fight your way through to represent Singapore in competing with the best gamers in the world.
All you need to do is enter the Super Battle Opera (SBO) tournament and showcase your moves, where the best winning team will emerge to compete in Tokyo, Japan with the best of the best!
Competition dates for SBO
Singapore Qualifying Rounds: 17 July & 24 July 2010 (3pm to 8pm)
Singapore Qualifying Finals: 31 July 2010, Saturday (6pm to 11pm)
Venue: Arcadia, 201 Victoria Street, Illuma at Bugis #05-04/08, Singapore 188067
Tel: 6509 9888
Fee: $7 per participant
Register at: http://www.round1.sg/sbo
Grand Finals in Japan: September 2010
Organized by Tornado, the integrated entertainment hub which offers advanced line-up of gaming machines and facilities, together with Round1.sg, Singapore's premier fighting game community, this 8th Arcadia Cup Tournament is an annual Japanese fighting video game event hosted by Arcadia.
If you are an arcade gamer, you'll be familiar with Street Fighter 4.
You can now be a part of the game and fight your way through to represent Singapore in competing with the best gamers in the world.
All you need to do is enter the Super Battle Opera (SBO) tournament and showcase your moves, where the best winning team will emerge to compete in Tokyo, Japan with the best of the best!
Competition dates for SBO
Singapore Qualifying Rounds: 17 July & 24 July 2010 (3pm to 8pm)
Singapore Qualifying Finals: 31 July 2010, Saturday (6pm to 11pm)
Venue: Arcadia, 201 Victoria Street, Illuma at Bugis #05-04/08, Singapore 188067
Tel: 6509 9888
Fee: $7 per participant
Register at: http://www.round1.sg/sbo
Grand Finals in Japan: September 2010
Organized by Tornado, the integrated entertainment hub which offers advanced line-up of gaming machines and facilities, together with Round1.sg, Singapore's premier fighting game community, this 8th Arcadia Cup Tournament is an annual Japanese fighting video game event hosted by Arcadia.
Art of Lasting Relationship

Some of us who are in a relationship may be wondering what the prospect is like to have a lasting marriage. Others may feel or think there is no need to be married to have a relationship since divorce is so common these days. Yet there are others who hesitate to enter into a relationship because of the many known broken marriages and their sad endings.
Marriage is all about the bonding of two becoming one. Separation causes split and the tearing away of one from the other, leaving each with only half. What has once been joined together, unfortunately, cannot become two again without hurting deep within and this usually lasts a lifetime. Remarriage, while our former half is still alive, often ends with the recurrence of a non lasting relationship that creates greater hurts than before. This is because true love once given cannot be returned without hurt, and life as we know it cannot remain the same.
Recently, I heard a sermon on 'Keys to a Fulfilling Marriage' by an itinerant preacher Raymond Davey from Sydney, Australia. He suggested three ways of keeping a marriage: Truth, Trust and Tolerance, and five actions we can take to keep a marriage: Communication, Commitment, Companionship, Communion, and Completeness. This article is adapted from the principles shared by him which I hope will help those who are planning marriage or are looking for answers to a fulfilling marriage.
Ways to Keep a Marriage
Truth is about a husband and wife always being truthful to each other. We must not hide the truth from our spouse and we must never lie. Being truthful is important because our spouses have been given the inner spirit to sense untruth, and this can give rise to a breakup.
Trust is about a husband and wife trusting each other. If a husband and wife fail to trust each other, a divorce may ensue. If a spouse is unfaithful or is faithless towards the other, his or her spirit must take heed not to break the faith.
Tolerance is about a husband and wife loving each other enough to tolerate and forebear each other's differences. Differences can come from the way we think about something, the way we do things, our behavior and other areas. These can tear relationships apart if mutual love and understanding are absent.
Actions to Take
Communication is about spending time with each other, with our children and the family. If we do not communicate and spend time with each other to have heart to heart talk and do things together, before long our presence will not be felt, and eventually we will be ignored.
Commitment is about sacrificial love. If we love our spouse, we will be ready to do anything for our spouse, even to lay down our lives.
Companionship is about being there for each other to have and to hold, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.
Communion is about our union in marriage, the dutiful honor within the marriage bed of undefiled wholesome union between man and wife only. Keeping this union undefiled and wholesome holds the key to a successful marriage.
Completeness is about keeping relationships prioritized in the following order: God, man and wife, family and children, work, ministry, and self.
No one likes a divorce, but that does not mean we should avoid marriage. We must take heed never to be faithless or to break faith or to deal treacherously. Marriage ties the two to become one flesh, so let all couples stay faithful to keep what has been joined together!
Marriage is all about the bonding of two becoming one. Separation causes split and the tearing away of one from the other, leaving each with only half. What has once been joined together, unfortunately, cannot become two again without hurting deep within and this usually lasts a lifetime. Remarriage, while our former half is still alive, often ends with the recurrence of a non lasting relationship that creates greater hurts than before. This is because true love once given cannot be returned without hurt, and life as we know it cannot remain the same.
Recently, I heard a sermon on 'Keys to a Fulfilling Marriage' by an itinerant preacher Raymond Davey from Sydney, Australia. He suggested three ways of keeping a marriage: Truth, Trust and Tolerance, and five actions we can take to keep a marriage: Communication, Commitment, Companionship, Communion, and Completeness. This article is adapted from the principles shared by him which I hope will help those who are planning marriage or are looking for answers to a fulfilling marriage.
Ways to Keep a Marriage
Truth is about a husband and wife always being truthful to each other. We must not hide the truth from our spouse and we must never lie. Being truthful is important because our spouses have been given the inner spirit to sense untruth, and this can give rise to a breakup.
Trust is about a husband and wife trusting each other. If a husband and wife fail to trust each other, a divorce may ensue. If a spouse is unfaithful or is faithless towards the other, his or her spirit must take heed not to break the faith.
Tolerance is about a husband and wife loving each other enough to tolerate and forebear each other's differences. Differences can come from the way we think about something, the way we do things, our behavior and other areas. These can tear relationships apart if mutual love and understanding are absent.
Actions to Take
Communication is about spending time with each other, with our children and the family. If we do not communicate and spend time with each other to have heart to heart talk and do things together, before long our presence will not be felt, and eventually we will be ignored.
Commitment is about sacrificial love. If we love our spouse, we will be ready to do anything for our spouse, even to lay down our lives.
Companionship is about being there for each other to have and to hold, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish, till death do us part.
Communion is about our union in marriage, the dutiful honor within the marriage bed of undefiled wholesome union between man and wife only. Keeping this union undefiled and wholesome holds the key to a successful marriage.
Completeness is about keeping relationships prioritized in the following order: God, man and wife, family and children, work, ministry, and self.
No one likes a divorce, but that does not mean we should avoid marriage. We must take heed never to be faithless or to break faith or to deal treacherously. Marriage ties the two to become one flesh, so let all couples stay faithful to keep what has been joined together!
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Are Young Drinkers on the Rise?
Starring ... Sara Ann K (HostSara)
Multimedia Journalist, RAZOR TV
Tuesday, July 13, 2010
Friday, January 13, 2006
Unsocialable or Thinking Alone
Many people think I am unsocialable because I usually lunch out alone, but the truth is, lunch time is the time my mind is set free to think, relax, and rest, in order to do a better job later.
As a writer, I work better using the mind and writes better creatively when my mind is relaxed. Many time when I rush with time, I lose focus and in the end accomplish nothing. There are of course days when I have to gather all the information I need to write an article or a presentation instead when there is a creative block or a lack of inspiration. In such cases, I often do not achieve my goals and fail to get angle of the story through to my audience. Readers and audiences read a story only because there are points or a point to be made, rather than being flooded by tonnes of information.
On days when my mind is clear and ideas start falling together, I often accomplish the task much faster, usually half the time I spend on compiling information for writing, yet with the article or presentation standing out better than all the hours of pressured compiling and writing, reaching out to the audiences further than ever before. Such is the power of inspiration!
So, you who are reading this blog, the next time you encounter someone like me, don't just jump to conclusion that the person is being unsocialable. You'll never know the real reason why he or she declines lunching with you. Maybe, like me, the person is merely thinking of the next move.
As a writer, I work better using the mind and writes better creatively when my mind is relaxed. Many time when I rush with time, I lose focus and in the end accomplish nothing. There are of course days when I have to gather all the information I need to write an article or a presentation instead when there is a creative block or a lack of inspiration. In such cases, I often do not achieve my goals and fail to get angle of the story through to my audience. Readers and audiences read a story only because there are points or a point to be made, rather than being flooded by tonnes of information.
On days when my mind is clear and ideas start falling together, I often accomplish the task much faster, usually half the time I spend on compiling information for writing, yet with the article or presentation standing out better than all the hours of pressured compiling and writing, reaching out to the audiences further than ever before. Such is the power of inspiration!
So, you who are reading this blog, the next time you encounter someone like me, don't just jump to conclusion that the person is being unsocialable. You'll never know the real reason why he or she declines lunching with you. Maybe, like me, the person is merely thinking of the next move.
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